The NGAF comes from internalizing that you really don’t give a f. This takes practice. Try it on a woman that you have absolutely zero romantic or sexual interest. Your roll will not be outcome dependent, because you truly are only in it to make that connection described above and nothing more.

Because you have no ulterior motive or end goal, she’ll sense that you are not trying to get into her panties and you’ll be all the more attractive for it. By doing this you’ve already distinguished yourself from most average dudes.

Now, do you just want to be attractive or do you want to be the unicorn? The one mf that she needs to get close to, to figure out, panties all wet and she doesn’t know why? Simply engaging in conversation that is outcome independent only takes you half way there. It works, but is limited. You actually want to make it outcome dependent to the Nth degree.

Let me explain. If you don’t care about the outcome, you are empty. You are cool, much cooler than the other dudes, but you are incomplete. A real man has a goal, women sense this. So rather than discarding the goal, you must replace it. Not with something lame like, “I really just want to take her out”, etc., but with something outrageous.

Now I will blow your mind… just like you will blow some bitch’s mind when you get this down.

A boxer, ninja or UFC fighter is trained to punch through the target, not just hit the target. If you punch someone straight on the nose and pull back just touching your fist to the tip, you’ve done no damage and you’re likely to miss the target (as it is generally a moving target). You must punch through the target. You punch to the back of the other mf’s head, thereby breaking their nose and knocking them out cold. If they pull their head back while you punch, well you’ve still fucked them up pretty good.

When talking to a woman, your goal isn’t to fuck her, to take her out, to get her phone number, etc. Punch through the target ninja. Place firmly in your head that your goal is to fuck her and her sister at the same time while her mother watches, to sell her pussy to random strangers on the street and give you the money, to get her to find bitches for you to fuck while she holds the video camera. Doesn’t matter, just something way extra, over the top and involving sex and control over the bitch. Pick one. And, of course, keep it to yourself but you must believe in it.

In your brain, your goal is to own her, for her to be your property. Repeat it in your head while you’re giving her 100% of your attention and direct eye contact. On that note, pick one eye to look at or you’ll look shifty and indecisive. Yes, look away periodically but hold a gaze much longer than you are used to.

Now you are goal oriented, outcome dependent. But your goal and the outcome is so inconceivable to the woman, that her spider senses will not be able to compute it, but you reek of sexuality and control. You also don’t give a fuck because the goal you set is so far in outer space that you’re not attached to it actually happening. You’ve just distinguished yourself from every mf on the planet that she has ever met.

So you fall short of your “goal” and you just end up hanging out, fucking each other silly, have her blowing up your phone, whatever. Darn. Get it?

Practice and patience. When fully internalized and done correctly, phone number, jumping to the sack, next steps, etc. is easy bake pie, stealing candy from a baby. Because you don’t give a f about those things she’ll be eager to give them to you. She will want to figure you out, she will want to see you again, she will want to covet what she can’t have. You gave her an experience, not just a conversation. You own her from the first words out of your mouth.

And no, she won’t give a fuck if you have nice abs, how often you work out, how much money you have in the bank, or what you drive. Unless, of course, you do.