I don’t take it wrong way. It’s very enlightening to hear your POV. And I really appreciate you taking the time to express it.

Actually I’m Puerto Rican, I have long dark curly hair, and I’m curvy with an hourglass figure. I have good taste and dress classy but sexy. I usually attract people who assume I’m all about sex because of how I look, but then I open my mouth and men seem perplexed by the incongruent nature of my looks vs. how I speak. I’m not stuck up, I’m super chill. I’m 420 friendly and play video games, so I’m not unapproachable. I just find the men who are physically attracted to me are more blue collar, and the men that I feel compatible with intellectually don’t approach me thinking I’m not up to par intellectually because of how I look or how i grew up. My exes are all these strange mix of highly intelligent ghetto boys, who are basically roses growing from concrete. Rare and difficult to find.

I complete understand there is a numbers game aspect to dating. That may be my problem. It’s very rare I meet someone I’m genuinely interested in. Like maybe 2x a year. I also don’t engage in casual sex and that seems to be a problem.