The few swinging couples I’ve met seemed well adjusted, fun, and happy. The poly folks I’ve met - it was almost always a hot chick, miserable primary guy, and some stud the girl met at work or something. Just like this video.

And I was in that exact situation some years ago when I was in a post-army experimentation phase.

This absolute 10 was hired at my job. Faux hippy, bubbly butterfly type. We hit it off immediately and then later on was like yeah my boyfriend yada yada…BUT I’m poly!!I’m like, wtf is that? She explains, and now all of a sudden I’m like hmm maybe I’m poly too.

She had me meet her guy, alone, at a cafe (ofc). I’m a 6’5 ex-ranger signed model. Apparently he was a very social person himself but man that shit was awk. I mean, he was an attractive bartender, but like, I’m an alien. He was not amused by the situation. I felt bad, but she was worth it. It was supposed to be all of us dating, I was bi at the time and down for whatever. They had had a relationship with another girl before, which was fine for him of course. But like, the dude was straight and came from a Muslim family lol. I came to my senses a few months later and got weirded out from it all. They were together for years and broke up shortly after I dipped out. Anyway.