I told my husband the same thing! We've been together for 5 years and the sex was bad. 3 years into our relationship, he admitted to me that he was a Virgin and that I was his first; he lied about being in relationships and having various other sexual partners prior to me. I eventually forgave him and tried to teach him how to please me but he truly has no desire to learn. He liked sex but he has such a Lazy Libido (sex only lasts for 3-4 minutes and then we're done, he does nothing to please me, so selfish). He's a great person and knows how I feel about our sex life but he wants to be with me, never wants to breakup. I'm also at the end of my rope. It sucks that we find a partner that we're compatible in every department except for sex :(