3. Have you ever lost your soulmate? What happened? Will you share? How are you now...

Have you ever lost your soulmate? What happened? Will you share? How are you now?

Don't believe in soulmates. Just broke up with my now ex boyfriend. I've been trying to play it cool but I am all over the place.

We were long distance. They had a job they couldn't be there all the time. I didn't mind. We got in a disagreement over something he did. He didn't address the problem. It was such a fucking stupid problem too but those little things matter. It wasn't about the problem but how he wouldn't fix the problem. How he would do little things to give mixed signals. Then I went to fix the problem (my expectations changed/were too high/I was very emotional/needy for peace) and made compromises and he wouldn't do them. I asked him to explain and he wanted me to wait three weeks when he had more time.

That was great. I agreed. Slowly started going insane. I'm just casually spilling all my fucking shit all over this subreddit but as you guys probably can relate too- us INFJs don't do too hot at just ignoring emotional problems.

Got to a point 2 weeks in where I was just very unhappy, not myself, and just shit. Broke it off with him. I really liked that person but obviously it wasn't shared. Feel like such an idiot looking back. I liked them so much. I wanted a future but fuck it. Fuck our future, just fuck it. Does not exist anymore. Not a thing. Fuck all of it.

Went out the other night and at first I was like, "awh, yeah! Single life!" but his company meant more to me then anyone elses. He was incredible. I'm so sad. I am sorry about spilling everything. I can't go back with him now because what is done is done. I hurt him too because I was selfish, impatient, and immature.

Everyone has to learn their lessons sometimes... mine just sucks a little more then usual it feels. Hope he is doing well.

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