Hi, Nick. Your ex is damaged goods. Why would you want to buy damaged goods? Don't be anyone's sloppy seconds. Cheaters are damaged goods, with serious personality and character deficiencies.

You're the prize here, not her. That's the mentality you need to adopt for yourself. If you don't choose to believe your time, energy, and attention is valuable, nobody else is going to convince you otherwise. They'll just take your word for it.

That's the thing, you just can't base your opinion of yourself on other's behavior and attitude towards you. It has to come from within. Choose to treat yourself with value first, then act accordingly. Only then will results follow.

Secondly. I'm not going to lie, that's not the best picture of you.

Step 1) grow your hair longer and get a top-quality haircut at a salon. Grow out some facial hair if you can.

Step 2) stop making excuses. Hit the gym and get in shape. Starty lifting. Get serious about eating a healthy diet with far more fruits and veggies. Cut sugar and corn syrup out of your diet almost completely.

anyways so far i found out most girls like:

Stop right there. The person's whose job it is to like you is yourself, not women. Stop caring whether they like you or approve of you. It doesn't matter, and won't help you improve yourself. Take that job more seriously, and be kind to yourself.

Ask yourself, what traits are you looking for?

Whether a woman "likes" you, whether she's attracted to you, and whether she's willing to go on a date with you, are often completely different things. Understand that, some women are willing to have sex with a man they completely hate.

I am professional Counter Strike Player no job

There's nothing inherently wrong with that by itself. However that's not a realistic long term career goal. I understand that there are a small minority group of people out there actually making a living wage doing competitive gaming. Don't assume you're one of those people.

Start seriously looking at different career options.

Here in the modern world, people will often tell you that your "career", and your "passion" need to be the same thing. But that really isn't true for most people in the world. A career is something you do to support yourself, by doing things other people value but can't do themselves for whatever reasons. that alloys you to pursue your passion, the things that you value, in your free time.