I'll put it this way: Be authentic with everyone you meet. Say exactly what you think without remorse. You needn't justify/defend your ideas to anyone.

REMEMBER THIS: IT IS OK TO HAVE YOUR OWN OPINION & IT IS OK IF PEOPLE (WOMEN) DON'T AGREE WITH YOU.

True CONFIDENCE comes from a deeply seated comfortability with & acceptance of yourself. So many of these "seduction" posts preach a "fake it til you make it" mindset and teach "skills" that accommodate for your lack of security in order to portray a (false) confidence. These are simply bandaids, not true solutions.

Work on yourself. Study philosophy. Find one that you like. With a matured mindset & refined worldview you will learn to be more more accepting of the PRESENT MOMENT and your experiences therein rather than constantly be worried about how your actions are being interpreted by others (INSECURITY)

What happens when you accomplish this is magical. When you learn to quiet the ever-present critical dialogue in your head then your attention is freed and can instead be focused on the experiences around you. By being ENGAGED in what you do you become INTERESTED in what's happening and you thereby become an INTERESTING person. You learn to follow your own compass and develop unique & individual STRENGTHS and PASSIONS. By learning to trust and accept yourself you learn that PURSUING YOUR INTERESTS is fun, regardless of the outcome. You learn that you have FUNDAMENTAL VALUE as a human. How you feel and WHAT YOU WANT are fundamentally OK. You needn't be ashamed or seek affirmation from others.

This isn't a strategy to "pick-up women". It is a strategy to become an authentic person, to whom some women will be attracted and others won't be (duh). By pursuing the women who you are GENUINELY INTERESTED IN then you will communicate a confident sense of engagement and will make the woman FEEL IMPORTANT AND SEXY and THIS is the key to success with women. Make them feel sexy and you will get laid, alot. I promise. :P