I can relate slightly. My bf is not a planner at all. It seems like he is just the type to wait to the last minute for things. We have been dating for 2 years and we graduate from college in April. So, I’ve asked him multiple times about what he plans to do after college. We live together now, so I’ve asked if he plans on living with me or going back home or living on his own. His answer is “I don’t know”. I also suggested that we should start saving money for this and he gets stressed and says he doesn’t know. He told my grandmother that he would help her son move on Sunday but he forgot that his parents are in town that day so he actually can’t help. It’s just a little frustrating that he never plans things because I love to have solid plans in advance.