This is a LONG time ago so things might have changed, but I got banned from the SRS-verse for not knowing some woman's grandmother was poor? Like the thread was "does anyone else feel guilty for liking stuff from the 1920s because it was regressive but it was still really cool?" and I was like "well overall women could get out and do stuff so that's an improvement over the previous century!" because I was in an American women's history class and that's what I was learning about, and one of the mods like flipped on me because I didn't talk explicitly about her poor grandmother who had to live in a shack with a dirt floor and wash other peoples' clothes and like...I'm sorry I didn't learn about your grandmother in my history class? Like I accept I'm always learning and didn't know about the state of poor women in Ireland but you just can't blame me for not having lived your life?

And I'm still super pro-social justice, but it just pisses me off so much when people get mad about other people not knowing something. Like, people don't have the same experiences you do. It's a ridiculous assumption.