I met someone that was very obsessed with extremely skinny young girls. His reason for that was because he thinks stretch marks is extremely ugly and he believed "only fat people have it". He himself was quite fat and had dark red stretch marks even on his arms and chest. He hated fat girls and when ha saw I was very thin he just burst out in relief and told me how worried he was that I was actually fat, because if I was, he would've left without a word as soon as he saw it.

My body is very small, so I can in comparison to someone else (normal size) look extremely small. But I was normal weight for my body, I have some jiggly meat on me and no visible bones so to say. When he truly saw a bit more, he said he actually wouldn't have gone for this as I was actually too fat for him. But it was "okay because you don't have stretch marks". Oh boy, I am a woman, ofc i have them, he haven't even seen my whole body. Also, I am a food lover and comfy lover. I don't wanna stress about being "beautiful" over being healthy and doing things I love. I was also looking for something serious, not someone that clearly can't stand a woman aging, being comfortable and changing in her body shape during her lifetime. Not even as a friend I would keep that around me that shames someone's body like he did. Someone's shape, markings and size are not a reason to act less respectful and be mean to. He was truly a nasty person with a fuktup view. I don't say it just because he didn't like bigger girls, it was how he said how they deserved to be treated, and how he viewed them and how he was very vulgar about his opinion and "I'm better than them".

Have you talked to him about what you saw on his Instagram?

If he denies looking at stuff like that he is lying, getting a lot of that type of content means you look at it a loot on insta or nothing else than just that, but you still have to look at more than a few couple to get a lot of it even then.

I try look a lot at certain food on insta sometimes to get more of that food to pop up there for inspirations an recipes, I get like half of it with that type of food then. Other half is animals as I follow a lot of animal-accounts.

If he confesses and is open about it when confronted and asked, I hope you guys can resolve it and you don't have to worry about something or feel bad about anything. Not that you have too resolve if this is making you way to uncomfortable if this is what he truly likes a.s.o. Don't let his view make you any less than others. You can feel that way, but that doesn't mean you are. Take care of yourself.