Hi Ginger,

I'm a secret submissive. No one who knows me in real life would ever suspect. I work out, I seem "tough," etc. I think being submissive is ultimately about trying escape the confines of the ego. You get tired of being yourself and you want what makes you "you" to be taken away.

I've being secretly looking at submissive fantasies online for years and they have evolved over time. I've always been turned on by bondage, teasing and denial, orgasm control, etc. Then at some point I learned about strapons and anal play and I thought that would be really exciting--to have a woman control and penetrate me like that. Then I was introduced to forced cross-dressing and feminization. That seemed really strange at first, but now I find that kind of humiliation sexy. And of course, chastity devices. So after years of exploration, I suddenly find the idea of being plugged and chastized and forced to work as French maid or something, very erotic! And of course, admitting to something like this is itself humiliating which makes me even more excited! -Brandon