Just don’t be a douchebag or a loser and you should be fine.

Douchebag: abusive, cheater, neglectful, misogynist

Loser: all that plus broke, ambition-less, no social life, poor hygiene and grooming, porn-addicted, etc.

And if you have any mental health issues, get those under control rather than expecting her to be your therapist. Being depressed doesn’t make you a loser but saddling your girlfriend or wife with it rather than seeking professional help (or just refusing any help at all) sort of does.

At the end of the day though, women are simple and really just want someone who can make them laugh and who is kind. At least for any woman worth her salt. It’s really not all that complicated. Looking good and having a high income will just determine what “league” of woman you’ll be fishing in, so to speakc not necessarily the quality of the woman herself. Otherwise no one poor or ugly would ever fall in love and be happy and that’s just not the case.