Mine was with a prostitute, so that

1.) was able to try out stuff that I wouldn’t otherwise be able to do easily.

And

2.) be in the hands of someone who knew what they were doing.

It was nice, still had that awkwardness, but overall learned that sex wasn’t exactly as cracked up as I had imagined it (I like romantic and “cinematic” erotica), so I got a very practical lesson on what to do.

Communication is a must, and understanding what the other person needs and not to be afraid of taking charge when needed. It’s a dance, another form of communication, so don’t throw courtesy out the window just because.

Also, don’t just got jackhammer... it looks good in porn, but it can hurt your partner. Unless you know what the other person wants, take your time and enjoy the new experience.

Hope you have fun :D