Well it's not that I'm worried the debt collectors will come to me for money. But off course my TV is here and some other expensive stuff, but I don't have the receipt anymore cause I've had those things for a long while so I can't prove they are mine and not his if they would come and collect stuff. And I feel I will lose a lot more money if he doesn't have money to pay for stuff and I end up paying for everything because I live here too. A big part of me moving here away from my sister was because I was always living on my own and didn't want to be dependant on my sister anymore. (although we get a long just fine). Me want ing to be in my own household again seriously backfired now... He is 36 and I am 28 BTW, so I guess if you didn't learn by now you probably never will. Even though I lived alone from a young age I had it done that way that my monthly bills would just be payed automatically so I wouldn't have to worry about it. So if I could do it at such a young age (22) I don't get why someone much older can't do it?