To me the whole point of cuckolding is degradation. That's what the industry wants us to do. We become so degraded that all we can do is stay with porn, or watch our loved one make love to another while we watch them like they're in a video. But it's not a video; it's real life! So many relationships and marriages end because of such things. I have a friend who is now divorced because her husband wanted to bring another into their bed. You yourself have experienced that turmoil. Sorry to get on my soapbox but I see cuckolding as a microcosm of the insidiousness of the industry.

I do understand that two people may consent to bringing a third or fourth into an open relationship. But that's not cuckolding.

I apologize if I've hurt anyone's feelings.