Everything in life has a matter of both masculine and feminine energy, giving and receiving, serving and being served. It's a continous flow between two interconnected poles. The same principles as electricity apply to all life and all matter in the universe. Two men can embrace masculine and feminine energy inside a gay couple. You may also look at yourself and ask, have you fully matured into both poles? If you find comfort into feminine energy, you may wish to understand why you are denying yourself from fully tapping into your masculine pole, or from comfortably switching between both. My guess is that it would be natural for biological men two incarnate more predominantly masculine energy than women. But then again, who knows the way of the Lord.