I think the best way to choose a date is to know the gal you're asking out. Here's some things to consider when coming up with some ideas (in my opinion):
Personally, I'm very low energy physically and socially and not really rolling in dough, so some of my favorite things to do are really just to hang out at a bar and talk. I also love going to arcades and things like that for a bit, then going on a walk and chatting about whatever - games, science, math, computers, movies, art, stuff happening in our lives, etc. Maybe we'd grab something to eat and then hang at their place for a while after.
There's a bar I know that actually has some consoles set up so you can play multiplayer games while you have a beer, and that sounds like the best kind of date to me!