I’m sorry I am angry by this post because one of my best friends is alcoholic and she thinks getting black out drunk is “cute”. Things like playing in the wind, humming, is what she does before she passes out. It isn’t cute. Taking care of her as much as much as I love her is worrisome.

But I do think the OP bf felt the chore of picking her up; and he found it annoying. That is fair. I don’t know enough, but I do know bringing up the past as justification to drink in excess just repulsive. That’s a flat out no and not ok for me. It’s just not justifiable to act “childish”. And I know that’s me and my stuff

I think it’s time of reflection, and I know cptsd and drinking don’t mix.