"Shawn" here- how lovely of you to message my sister about "teaching (me) a lesson".

Let's review one or two things. The night AFTER my breakup, you messaged me, sending me your drawings of heart and self-portraits inspired by me, then you said you wanted to date, even if I was older and a state away. I was a little leery, as it was too soon, so I told you to wait for us to get our bearings. YOU came on to ME.

Afterwards, you messaged me every couple nights, explaining how your friends rejected you and that I needed to tell you that you would survive, or else you'd finish cutting. You explained that your sister had other ideas and I told you she was a shitty sister for saying that. You kept doing this, while also whining to me about guys who don't like you- how am I supposed to respond to that?

And yes, Lina cheating on me and getting pregnant cut deep and drove me in a direction you described, so I sought your platonic comfort out... only for you to fucking accuse me of sexual harassment.

Here, have a gander, will you...?!

YOU: Hello, this is an awkward message to send because I don't like telling people these things.I am not interested in you romantically or sexually, and some of the things you have been saying have been implying that you feel that way about me. Lately you have said some very rude and disrespectful things to me, and they have made me really uncomfortable. Please do not contact me again.

ME: "Romantically"? "Sexually"? What are you talking about? I'm going through a hard time and I'm trying to talk with someone who has had hard times in the past. If you recall, you have gone through a lot over the past year and you always came to me, asking for me to tell you things are going to be better. Why you suddenly are talking to me, someone you've known your entire life, like I'm a creep is far beyond me.

Then, you blocked me. So... you hit on me compulsively and when my life goes sour and I ask for support, you cry like a baby. Your sister had her hissy fit and said you would want to be my friend again... after you accused me of sexual harassment. Are you serious?!

Look, I've known you your entire life and while I knew you were a whiny brat who'd stomp her feet whenever Daddy didn't buy her a new pony, I still loved and respected you. But you needlessly crossed a threshold from which there is no return. The honest-to-God truth is that the comments are right... you were told by your family that you're fragile and as such, have been building this personal temple of self-absorption and self-pity. I sincerely hope you get over yourself and return to Earth.