You know what? I'm much, much older than you. And I heard the same ions ago, before the internet lol. Along with "I don't usually date black women, but..." "You're pretty for a black chick" "I'm not attracted to black women, but I'm attracted to you" and the GOAT "I only like chocolate girls". They don't learn and it does not change. I'm actually very disappointed for younger black women that you're still dealing with this level of ignorance and fetishization. They truly believe you're going to jump on their D and they've got game (or whatever y'all call it these days). But really, it's just rude, disrespectful and gross. Stay strong out there.