Originally the GC, became the SG and LC simultaneously when emom remarried and my sister went through an episode and was diagnosed with Bipolar.

Was pretty much a piece of shit as a boy, given all the attention, raised in a middle class environment, struggled with relationships particularly other boys. I would bully my friends and couldn't relate in a healthy way/dynamic. Then Emom remarried when I was 16 to Nstep dad.. he would bully and belittle/ play mind games when we were alone. This really fucked me up during my formative years and even though I love him, hold a lot of anger and resentment towards him to this day.

When my SGsister was diagnosed we were all worried and worked together to try and fix it without realizing this was a marathon not a sprint. SGsister realized power in her diagnosis and would use it to control members of the family. Emom devotes her life to helping my sister, but my sister can't work 40 hours a week, cook her own meals, on meds and a functioning alcoholic, abusive boyfriend (we have holes in our walls and on the side of our kitchen appliances from his knuckles), can't function without EMOM, and she's about to start college after quitting 3 degree programs already. Shes 22.

I became the SG when my sister was diagnosed (understandably). But I became the LC from the years of bullying from N Step Dad. I'm 26, haven't had a girlfriend in 5 years, no friends for 10, about to finish degree in engineering, still love with parents.

I love my family and forgive Nstep Dad because he's human, I want my sister to get better without being called names and treated like a POS, and I want my mom to start living her own life and to not stress any more and find her own things she enjoys.