How do I avoid having a crush with every pretty girl I meet?

You know all those girls Dan Bilzerian always has around him? I dated a girl like that for a couple years (100 percent due to thinking with the wrong head) once I got to know her and all of her friends (they were hot too) I realized that that’s all that shit is; skin fucking deep m8. I used to fall over myself trying to talk to them, now I smirk and I’m like “that bitch would probably ruin my life.” Ironically when you act like this they start to talk to you more and again you’ll realize how little you have in common/how cardboard the personality is.

This is a massive generalization and just because a girl is super pretty doesn’t automatically mean she’s this way, but I’ve found it to be true very very frequently. It likely has a lot to do with how they’re treated (for example you had a crush on her without so much as a word) because they are used to people falling over themselves to do them favors/get more job opportunities and have a general sense of entitlement.

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