Ahhh I see, I see lol. I read the articles you linked, and they were interesting. When it comes to my relationship, it is not at all a power game. I don't think of it like that, I don't know if I ever could. I am pretty childlike in our relationship and sometimes confuse my boyfriend a lot.

I've always found myself attracted to the aggressor type guys, but I think it was coming from wondering how our relationship would be because of their roughness, if that makes sense. I wouldn't act on it of course, but I found it fun to think about. Of course, I don't care to ponder about that now, because I am with my boyfriend, who I'm very certain is not an aggressor type, and I'm very happy with him.

Thank you for clearing this up for me:))