Well, this is how it is for me personally.. I've tried to control it as much as possible butttt its basically impossible.. So I deal with it by getting a partner who has a high sex drive. Whether as a friend's with benefit or just somebody who's easy to have around. You don't have to necessarily be in love ? Having one partner to do it with is easier and safer after all. But when that person isn't around you just gotta try to gratify yourself I suppose. Sure you'd probably do so a tonne but honestly where's the shame in it huh. And if you want to really push your sex drive low I gotta say that without the help of medication it'd be impossible I suppose? So you'd have to talk to your doctor about it. Goodluck!