How to deal with family always asking about when we are going to have kids

If you’ve been checked for the multiple miscarriages what have they said. Get on protection why are you Even getting pregnant multiple times in a year knowing you have a history of miscarriages. Your body needs to heal which you are not allowing it to heal.

My husband is non confrontational too I get it. It was my fil that wouldn’t stop asking. Not even that but hed make comments when they’d have family over. We hadn’t even been married a year. I ignored him for a long time but it got worse. Hee go around telling his friends oh My son and dil wont have children they’re using protection I’m not joking.

One day I came down and he had another go at me saying I’m doing wrong by not having kids and we need to stop using protection (he didn’t even know this for a fact, he was honestly disgustingly shameless) so I thought I’m sick of the disgusting comments people like this only stop when you Go to their level.

So I told him he could go around telling people how much he wanted, he could shout at us all he wanted, I still wasn’t having a baby, so he can carry on with himself!

He went red he was fuming I didn’t give a f. There’s a limit you want to cross it then it’s fair game

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