So maybe women can be just "not in the mood" too. Not all women go to bars or clubs specifically to get laid.
What the fuck are you even talking about? It really seems at this point you're so upset over this argument that you're just lashing at out every comment. Calm down lady, seriously. Take a deep breath.
I'm gonna nip this in the bud right here, since this is getting ridiculous:
So basically it's like "Hey women, we totally want you to ask us out, we're tired of having to do all the work but if you do ask us out, we're going to assume you're a slut and refuse you." If men want more women to ask them out, they have to change their attitute about being asked out. Why would I want to ask men out if they're going to call me a slut?
If you have a bitter chip on your shoulder over double standards, I'm not the guy who cares enough to help you on that one.
I mean, the impression I get from your post is some upset woman who just wants to express her feelings and have them validated.
Unfortunately, I am also not the guy for that.
Moving on.
If only people could accepted that both men and women can have difficulty having sex
I never said that women didn't or don't have difficulties, at all. But let's not pretend it's equal: I just said that overall the average woman has it easier than the average man. And I think I've argued this pretty well, with sources and data to back it up.
In response you've brought hostility, obfuscation, soap boxing, and some anecdote that I honestly could care less about. Lady I'm sorry: Your friend is probably fucking ugly, and you don't want to admit it. At least, she's not attractive enough to bag a guy after 10 minutes (12 guys, I'm assuming she spoke to them for at least 10 minutes, for a total of 2 hours that night...)
I'm sorry, Occam's razor - the simplest explanation that explains the most is probably true. Your friend is ugly, it's the simplest explanation that explains the most. -shrug-
So, do you have any closing words, because I think I'm just about done here. I can only read so much dramatic, histrionic hyperbole and exaggeration in one day. And you're still putting words in my mouth, and as promised, I'm throwing you into time out.