How many of you actually believe in the "nice guys finish last" concept?

The few times where girls have looked or acted visibly extremely uncomfortable around me, or act creeped out, that's what hurts.

Disregard them.

I mean this in the most humble way I can possibly say this, but I'm a guy who checks a lot of women's "boxes" for what they're supposed to want in a guy; I'm traditionally good-looking, work in a good job while finishing my final year of an advanced degree, am fit, am well-groomed, dress well, yada-yada. Point being, I'm about the furthest thing from "creepy" that one could imagine. Currently single, so I sometimes talk to women I meet, either with them approaching me or me approaching them.

About 50% of the time, we'll trade numbers. Around 40-45% of the time, I will get a polite rejection, the typical "I have a boyfriend" or what not. However, once out of every 15 or so girls I talk to, I will get some batshit crazy reaction.

Something along the lines of:

\ - "Why are you talking to me?! I, like, don't even know you!" (as if I don't talk to people get to know them first)

It's not like I'm approaching these women randomly on the street either, it's usually at a party or at the library or something similar. Nothing I do invites a reaction like this. I've consulted friends who've witnessed me approach girls and all have confirmed that there's nothing creepy about what I'm doing.

The solution is to disregard those girls. I honestly believe they're immature or actively take pleasure in rejecting guys. There's nothing you can do to stop or change them, so don't even worry about them.

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