After I'm done with working, working out, socializing, and taking care of errands and chores I really only have a few hours a week left to do something productive and I usually just opt to chill, take a nice hot shower, do my skincare routine and watch TV or read during that time so I don't really expect others to actually produce something in their downtime.

Video games are a slight turnoff for me because I was raised to believe they're juvenile and a waste of time but I recognize that's an unfounded bias so I'm cool with it as long as it's not an obsession. The thing I hate the most is watching sports as a hobby, after dating someone who followed every single sport and would choose watching sports over literally any other way to pass the time I just can't. A test for me is to ask the guy to do something on a Sunday during football season and if he says he cant because of a game, or even acts like it's a hard decision for him, I cut him loose.