She's stereotyping in a way that isn't creative, insightful or humorous. Other users have already commented that the jokes don't work because women do these things too. They fetishize gay men. Not only do they fetishize professions, I think it is more common for women to do it than men. Think of the whole men in uniform trope or just switch the role in this skit from "flight attendant" to "pilot." And have you ever heard a woman talk about how her "crazy" ex was good in bed? If there is one thing toxic people are good at (regardless of gender) it's being likable for short periods of time in specific situations.

The worst part is the false dichotomy fallacy. "You either love this video or you're an incel." Well, minstrel shows were nothing more than white people dressing up as African Americans and exaggerating stereotypes for laughs. I'm certain you can find a minstrel offensive without "proving" the jokes are true because they "must have hit too close to home."