sexual orientation is a big part of one’s identity therefore i feel betrayed he wouldn’t let me in on this huge part of his life. i tell him everything and i’m upset that it’s not reciprocated, but i know this situation is more fickle than that hence why i came here.

i have so many questions i wanna ask, one being how long as he known? has it been a long time or just discovered recently? if it’s that latter, how would he have found out, if not through wandering eyes? i’m not asking to be accusatory (though it may seem like that) but as a straight person i would really like to educate myself on these things especially if it involves someone i love