The Jen & Larry Scene (Holy Shit!)

THANK YOU!! I have been saying this since this damn clip was shown. If she didn't hear him when he said that "she can take her shit and get out" (or something like that) I sure hope he told her he said it before Monday night's episode plays....if she sees it for the first time on Monday, or saw the clip like we did, Oh my God! That was a really fucking low blow from Larry and I know people say things they don't mean when they're drunk or angry or both, but that stung BAD. I only work per diem now (RN) and I'm a SAHM. I supported my husband through medical school and residency. I've moved from NY to PA, and the across the country to NV (once for residency and then for my husband's first attending position 12 years ago). I absolutely contributed and still contribute to this family. I can't believe some women let their husbands say that BS to them. Ladies, come on!! Go talk to an attorney, most of them give free consultations. Once you realize your rights and that you have worth, you'll never let a man tell you that you can get out. Thank God that most states are community property states and there are no-fault divorce states. That's just one of the worst things that a man could utter to his wife of over 30 years. Sure speaks VOLUMES about what he really thinks about his wife, don't you think? People say the truth comes out when you're drunk? Hmm. Also I can tell with the ease that Larry said all those nasty things that this is NOT the first rodeo of him talking down to her. We never would have known it, but he had a bit too much to drink and got a bit too comfortable and with ease that just came out of his mouth--he wasn't crying like he was the other time he was telling her how special she was, how much he loved her and thanked her for how she's been the glue and backbone that has held their family together. Seems like if he was that much of a sensitive guy it would've pained him or hurt him to say those things "don't lie to me", "you better not.....or I'll find out", If she doesn't like it she can get her shit and get out", Jaala is like "don't say that you love her", he's not like "I do, I know, I shouldn't say that but I am just SO HURT AND SO ANGRY", he said "I'm DONE, I don't care"....then the whole "I've been 2nd to him my whole life, and then 3rd, and I don't care if it's 3rd because Bentley, but I'm not going to be 2nd anymore". WHOA who admits they're jealous of their own son because the wife puts her child before her husband? I've seen people in this sub that have talked about giving birth, falling so in love with their child, and never even knowing they could ever feel that much for another human being, that they said to their partner you will forever be the 2nd most important person in my life, or my 2nd love, AND AT THE SAME TIME I BETTER BE YOUR 2ND TOO......I'm a mother. Until one is a mother they can not understand how the overwhelming love just takes on its own life (unless you're Juhnelle, but I digress)....and I don't say that to be rude or nasty or superior to say to other women "you don't have a child so you don't know", but I think most moms would agree with me-you just can not even imagine. I never did. It's crazy. Having said that I KNOW there comes a time when you have to push that baby out of the nest and hope he flies on his own, hope that you did your job right, etc. Ryan is a SHIThead. He needs to fly on his own. Larry has been OVERLY accommodating and understanding. It's just no reason to beat up on the mother of your child and put your displaced anger on her for what your 28 year old man child did. Jen needs to take that girls trip!

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