The thing I've got noticed about "ugly" dudes is that they're never willing to take advice or change to get a girl. They just want to be loved for themselves. I get it, but women don't get the luxury of getting to be their natural selves, so you have to step it up. You're overweight? Or compensate and dress for your body.

There are 'ugly' dudes out there that put effort into their appearance, don't just wear jeans+ graphic tshirt. They've got a good personality, you can relate to them. They pull girls because they try and because they're not going for the hottest girl in the room. Know what you're capable of. If you're a 3, you're pulling a 5-6 maximum.

I've also noticed that "ugly" dudes tend to try friendship first instead of always being obvious about their attraction. They get stuck in the friend zone because they angled themselves as a friend and women don't like to lose friends by trying a relationship.