I’m in a similar situation, but with a lot less time involved. We never had an official title. She wasn’t ready and neither was I, but it worked. We got along great and kept me in order. I loved it. She’s a very kind and caring person. Amazing. She met me at a very low point in my life, but she still kept working with Me And kept pushing to do better.. and I did, even went to church. Unfortunately I got so Many things going on a that i finally had to push her away. It’d be selfish of me to take her along this mental breakdown, when she herself was improving. Thank you, R. Basically what I’m saying is that you don’t need a title or have to figure out if youre in love with her or not. just go with it and figure it out later. Life’s too short for that. Just keep it moving and give it an effort.