M[20] Got cheated on, now have low self esteem.

Why would I do that, when you asked for constructive criticism, and when--frankly--only idiots forget that there are actual human beings on the other side of the screen, that few of these people are actually as ugly as you think they are? In the real world, someone hoping to humiliate another person doesn't deserve to be taken seriously. Their motives are simple and base.

I actually admitted I have worse acne than you to make the point that I understand that pain, you kinda blew it off.

What's annoying now is that you seem to have come to this forum not for help, or advice, but for strangers to confirm the disgusting things family members and "friends" should not say to another human being, unless they're going to pay for your surgery or wave a magic wand.

Take it from someone whose life has been impacted by domineering people, and it's influenced me in horrible ways I'm not aware of till it's too late, patterns of thinking and behavior--you're going to drive away women and everyone else, and ruin your life if you don't grow out of it.

Read how I edited my comment--you're not important enough to be nasty to.

And if you want to argue with people that treat you in good faith, you are going to have a miserable, paranoid life ahead of you. You'll also be taken advantage of by every creepy surgeon that exploits insecurities you're hoping people will chisel into.

All of these people have struggled with their own insecurities enough to be familiar with acne, imperfect noses, and everything you are bringing here, but it seems you're so self-involved or genuinely delusional you actually think we'd all play a trick on you instead of calling you a monster.

Normal people with self-awareness and humility don't think that way or talk to other people unless they have reason to hate their guts or are sociopaths.

That's it. I'm sorry if this is harsh. Stop externalizing the self-hatred your family has instilled in you. You can look like Brad Pitt and it won't mean anything if you don't know how to relate to people.

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