A perfectly intuitive assumed-axiom of modernity, but it’s plainly untrue after any serious consideration, or any serious life experience. I am fundamentally attracted to an entirely different sort of person than I was in my early twenties, for example — this didn’t “just happen”, but came subsequent to an array of changes in education, proclivity, temperament, habits, interests, familiarity, etc.

You are not just some static object which is deterministically bound to whatever happens to presently be the case. You are a learning, changing, adaptive, curious, discerning, free creature that may or may not undergo all sorts of changes related to or comparable to attraction.