I’m the girl who got choked over shower temperature- here’s my update.

I need to work through why I attach myself to these men

Let me guess, they're hot? Confident? Have big dicks? Have money?

It isn't a mystery why girls attach themselves to any guy. If it's any consolation, you're just like every other girl out there. You'd rather have a guy you're attracted to literally beat the piss out of you than a guy you're not attracted to treat you well.

Nobody can blame you, if a guy's not attractive, he's not attractive, but you don't need to "work through" anything, you just need to take the next step after finding a guy attractive and make sure he's not the "beat the piss out of you" type.

Unfortunately, taking that second step is a lot more work and a lot less fun than just getting pounded over and over by a hot dude.

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