Wow, this is an epiphany moment. I could not find the issue with this, but I would never dismiss how YOU feel about it. Especially as a momma myself. However, I am so effed up and used to my BPD mom and oldest sister that I did not see it. That is how manipulated we are from being raised this way. I stepped away and read some of the comments.

Damn that is cold. I understand being overwhelmed. Take it one day at a time and try not to take in too much at once. You get one thing done and then you just go one to the next task. You then rest when needed. I have to break it down that much. I am completely broken and can't function without instruction. Childhood PTSD. Your feelings and your life should be much more important to her. Wouldn't it be weird if our Mom's were like other moms lol. I have thought that my whole life.