Hi, thank you for your response. After reading your comment, I agree that it’s unfair for me to expect my wife to have the same views with opposite gender friendships. She hasn’t mentioned him in a couple of weeks which is odd considering she texts him nearly every day. We don’t really go through each other’s phones so it would be unusual for me to go through their texts. She definitely texts him and does not talk to me about it though. Last night is a good example, which is why I’m here seeking guidance because I sort of felt like this is that last straw for me. It isn’t verbally said, but the body language and actions show me that she chooses to avoid me seeing those things, and she no longer brings anything they talk about up in conversation. She will text him while we are together about anything-tv shows, etc. but will not mention a word of their conversation to me. The lack of transparency is causing me to question this because she at least mentions other people she talks to.