Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] of 5 months, out of nowhere tells me she wants to be by herself and doesn't want to talk anymore. How do I move past this and what could be going through her head?

I'm not arguing that because a part of me always felt that way to begin with. But like I said before, I was very naive and hopeful in this situation because I'm too young and dumb to know any better. I never expect anyone in general to be angels but I expect them to have some decency. As shitty as a human being as I might be, I still have feelings and I was hoping this girl would be decent enough to consider that before leaving me in that manner.

I guess I just can't trust anyone and I won't anymore. Again, I didn't even expect anything back. I expected an explanation if anything ever changed in our lives but I guess even that's too much to ask.

I don't doubt that it's good advice, I just deluded myself in the belief that someone could be an exception but it ended up being an example. Oh well.

I don't really understand how you believe being content and satisfied with my life even when going days with no word from my partner is clingy, but it's not like I can change your mind anyways. I expected some level of respect or consideration from her not as a girlfriend, but as a human being.

I never said I was a good boyfriend nor did I ever believe that about myself.

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