Thank you for that all this, it's highly appreciated. Actually finding something is also a legit concern of mine because I feel like I don't look the best but I feel like I'm charming enough to counteract that hah. I know my wife won't have any issue finding someone but I am worried about myself slightly. EVEN if it does come down to that eventually, our communication really solid ( I know I mentioned it already a few times but it's true) and it does become an issue, we'd be able to talk it out. We want to stay together for the rest of our lives, but through talking we pretty much came down to the fact that we're both rather young still, both really enjoy sexual activity that just doing that with each other for the rest of our lives seemed a bit silly. Wish me luck (; hah