Hahaha...I'm not THAT bitter, but yeah this post does make me reflect on all the women I currently know and have known and it makes me frustrated. I'm frustrated because I'm not the kind of guy who likes casual hookups. I've had 2 over the course of a year several years ago and I just can't not catch feelings for the girl. I have turned down or not explored opportunities for casual sex since then. I'm not bitter because I am not invited to the party, I'm bitter because I don't enjoy that party and there aren't many alternatives.

It's really hard to find a girl that I'm compatible with that wants something serious. In the last 2 years I've only dated 3 girls, none of them were long term and none of them were compatible with me. Two of them I split things off because one smoked copious amounts of weed and the other one turned out to be a huge partier, and was very wild, and the third told me she didn't want anything serious because she was moving at the end of the semester.

So yes, I am telling you I wouldn't bang a hottie that wouldn't bother me in the morning. I'm bitter right now in this post, but I don't carry this bitterness around with me among my peers. My friends say I'm charming and charismatic. I know what I have to offer, I don't lack confidence, quite the opposite. I know what I have to offer is good it's frustrating for me to have such a hard time finding someone I'm compatible with and I feel like the culture around dating and sex in my area hinders my ability to find someone that I can have something more meaningful with.