No guilt over not being into them, but I have felt sympathy for women I've had to reject because I wasn't interested in them either physically or romantically. Especially when they've been friends. Similarly, it was not a good feeling to know that my gay friend was experiencing pain because they'd gone and fallen for me.

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have any of you ever felt social pressure/guilt because of who you are NOT attracted to?

Personally, no. There's definitely social pressure to not be that asshole who spits a bunch of racist drivel, though, like those nasty dudes who say all kinds of things about black women to the point that they look like some kind of klansman or neonazi.

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Do you feel bad for not being into a particular race/geographic region/body type/sexual orientation?

Nope. Someone who would try to make me feel bad for not being attracted to other dudes would just be a complete and utter idiot in addition to being a terrible person.

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Granted, I don't have any particular issues when it comes to a woman's race or ethnicity that some people have that can be pretty uncomfortable. Like one woman I encountered who admitted that she had romantic feelings for a friend of hers and wanted to fuck his brains out, but couldn't bring herself to date him because he was black and was simultaneous disgusted by the idea of sex with him and herself for wanting to have sex with him.