Hey stray lesbian…this is so random, but how do you make a move on a queer lady. I actually have a second date tomorrow and I think she’s expecting me to make a move on her (we’re both looking for a casual summer fling). She’s smaller, shyer, more feminine and I’m Mr. Big toughie. But I just don’t want to make her uncomfortable (internalized homophobia has kept me from ever getting close to a lady. It’s been solely look, don’t touch up to her sidling up to me and cuddling at our last meetup). Do you have any tips for getting over nerves? Any touch tips, ig about general flirtatious moves I could pull (I’ll obviously respect her boundaries and communicate, but I’m wondering if there’s a sexy code I was never let in on). I want to be smooth, but I also want to be respectful. I’m struggling and super nervous.