I got some messages. I replied to one who suggested to put my reply to him on here. He was frustrated he would barely get any replies to his prompts despite putting in a lot of effort, and whenever he replied to a prompt, he got no answer. This is what I told him. The quotes are from his message.

I'll go a bit indepth. I got some knowledge because I got two good guy friends I met on here who told me their side of things as well.

I just... damn, (you get) 50 messages? Really?

Usually more as the topic stays up!

In all the prompts and posts I've made, I've gotten 1 message... ever.

Depending on your prompt, you have to remember that it's most likely that guys outnumber girls 10 to 1 on here. That's a big deal. It gives us girls the luxury to be more picky. Unfair maybe, but that's how it is.

And whenever I respond to the requests on the sub giving people what they want, I don't get replies back.

Remember, I get 50-100 replies. No joke. In the weekend I once got 200 replies! 200! (55.000 subscribers on this sub don't forget) I can't reply to everyone, so assume this is the same for every topic you reply to.

Every single guy message me giving me 'what I want'. I pick out the ones that appeal to me most. It's not a rejection towards you, just different tastes. There's a lot of things that turn me off and I don't want to reply to.

You can't take it personal. There's not a lot of girls on and most are looking for a specific thing. A lot of them are guys playing girls as well, I hope you realize this... my guy friend said he does it sometimes because he doesn't get a response if he just does his M4F thing.

Most important is just to be confident but don't bet too much on it. Get something well written, not too long, and leave a bit up to the imagination. I often look for something unique and interesting fitting to my needs! Being funny in your title also helps. Something that draws our attention.

Hope that helps!