I can see that point, about him making trouble in the hospital, and neither the mother nor the staff should have to deal with this, totally agree. But then why lead him on like that.

I guess I'm just defending him so hard bc I somehow feel his disappointment dripping from his comments. This was apparently a huge moment for him, maybe also bc he's been abused as a kid and this baby is his family now, and it's gotten taken away after his hopes were up.

None of this entitled him to be in there or mess around in the hospital.

But I just feel he also doesn't deserve this shaming sh*t fest here right this minute when he's clearly devastated.

My million downvotes in this threat aside lol, I'm actually a pretty compassionate person and I feel sorry for this kid.