My [24F] boyfriend [25M] of one year wants me to roleplay as Anne Frank in the bedroom

First off, this whole scenario is bullshit, I don't believe for a second there's a guy out there sneaking off from his girlfriend to read a 15 year old dead girls diaries. Nice troll.

But it got me thinking about the scenario anyways, And what is and isn't acceptable in a bedroom setting.

To start. I'm pro Roleplay. When I roleplay I primarily use fictional characters, all though I'm not opposed to historical characters if suggested. Cleopatra, maralyn Munroe, etc are examples of historical figures I can imagine people roleplaying as.

For me Roleplay has always performed the role of easing transition into Dom-sub roles. A person not comfortable with such concepts might find the shift easier if they're pretending to be batman/catwoman at the mercy of the other.

For me Anne Frank is an affirmative no.

  1. Anne frank was a child, she only lived to be 15.
  2. She was a holocaust victim. Nothing about genocide and gas chambers is

So, to break that down further. I'm comfortable with sexualization of fictional characters that are under age. If you want to live out your childhood dream of finally banging misty, Power to you.

I'm fine with overall child roleplay, if you want to wear an adult diaper and put your hair in pigtails, power to you. (actually this creeps me out, but I've met enough women who've wanted scenarios like this in the bedroom that I accept that it's a semi-common fetish.)

I'm not fine with specific real children. If you want to bang someone pretending to be anne frank or Millie Bobby Brown, or a very young hermione Granger... that's fucked up. You should probably talk to a therapist about that.

So where I get stuck is the gray area. For example one of the earliest Crushes I can remember having was Christina Ricci When she starred in Casper. If someone wanted to dress up as her during sex, I'd be weirded out, I'm not 10 anymore and now when I see her I think she's waaaaaaay too young!

However if someone wanted to dress up as Wednesday Adams in the bedroom, I'd be all for it. Which is baffling because, it's the same actress.

The difference becomes the detachment from the character and the concept. There have been enough women dressed up as wednesday adams over the years that I no longer associate it with being a child, instead I associate it as a personality. Wednesday has a very unique personality regardles of when she's 12 or 22. Harvey in Casper hasn't built up that detachment of persona from her character and I wouldn't be comfortable with that in the bedroom.

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