My (24F) boyfriend (29M) is putting money above my health.

He knows EVERYTHING. There are no secrets between this man and I. I asked for permission though I shouldn't have to since it's MY half and he says yes but not without making snarky remarks. He thinks it's unfair that my unexpected expenses come out of something that he contributes to.. However, for a woman who he claims he'd die for, he sure is acting very shitty about a few doctor's visits. If I were to collapse from not going to the doctor, he would definitely feel like shit, so I don't know why he's acting like this. It's ridiculous and if the shoes were changed, I would give him every PENNY I have to feel better. I thought that was a normal thing to do for someone you love?? :S

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