My [35F] SIL [25F] planned a birthday party for her kids on my daughter's [6F] birthday. Should I ask if we can make it my daughter's birthday too?

My one brother and I have the same birthday. We are not twins. we are six years apart. I cant begin to imagine what it was like to suddenly have share every birthday.

For me, it was always like that. Ive NEVER had my own birthday party.

To makes things worse, my oldest brother has his birthday a week after ours. and when he got married, his wife had a birthday a week before mine and they later had a son who had a birthday with a birthday around the sane time. So my family decided that EVERY FUCKING YEAR we would have a huge party for everyone. Ive always hated it!

Also, last year I decided to make plans ( short notice, so its mostly my fault) for my birthday. I went to invite people and my oldest brother said they were already having a party for his son the day after my birthday. It would have been fine if his birthday was that close, but no. His birthday was two weeks before mine. Seriously! They couldnt plan something during that time? Like WTF! I guess fuck my birthday then, right?

Rant over.

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