my bf [m33] broke up with me (F30] while i am pregnant

Yeah it happens to much in my opinion. I have enough money to support myself and my child that is not gonna be an issue. I Just want my child to feel loved thats al. And i think it is cruel that someone who begged for this baby/pregnancy to just leave like we are nothing.

Yeah we pushed each other away, but he can not accept me to be his personal door mat all the time. If there is shit going on.. deal with it. Or ask help, instead of bottling everything up. I always try to communicate but he does not want to. He says i have a lot on my mind i have no time for this.

That is what makes me mad, i am doing my best do do everything for this child on my own. And he can not even do the bare minimum or seek therapie etc. He says he wants to go to couples counseling, but i need to find one and make an appointment he does not help and the only things he says is that he has no time. It is okay if we do not work out but just do not act like a teenager. Act like a father and a grown man.

To be honest i am gonna do that anyway just focus on the fact that i am gonna go through this alone and be a single parent. Because if someone can act like this you can not depend on this person. He can always be a father if he wants to that is up to him.

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