IF (and I wouldn't recommend it. ever. what he did was DISGUSTING) you plan to stay with him, I say get a more permanent form of birth control he cannot tamper with.

I use Nexplanon, and I love it. I know it's a hit and a miss for some people, but it's worth a try. Maybe an IUD or the depo shot. Something YOU and only you control.

For what's it worth, you should be aware this is something you can press charges for. It's nothing to balk at. What he did was spineless, selfish, and absolutely revolting. I'd never stay with a man who did that.

To each his own. I wish you luck. Be sure to beat it into him how wrong what he did was, no matter what you choose to do.